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जलेबी जैसे काम्प्लेक्स जिंदगी  पर मेरा इमारती जैसा सीधा साधा पोस्ट :)))

kash main jitni tezi se bolta hoon utni tezi se apni bhavnaye likh kar vyakt kar pata to
5 min main yeh bhaggam bhag type blog post kar deta .

हमारी भागमभाग वाली जिंदगी पर मेरा एक संजीदा प्रयाश है।

humain jadli hai , bahut jaldi hai,kis cheej ki yeh to main bhi  trying to figure out.

 Planing has became an  integral part of our life. Har samay planing hi chal rahi hamare agal bagal.jahan dekho bas planing ban rahi hai

Is mahine salry aayegi to phir  iphone5  lenge,( though abhi pichle hi saal liya tha iphone3)

agle mahine Smart TV lenge (smart tv pata na hoga,par padosi ko competition dena hai

uske agle mahine four wheeler lenge (although ghar main parking space nai hai)

agle saal appraisal ke bad home loan lenge  


EMI का धन्यवाद आप कुछ भी खरीद सकते है इस उधार की जिंदगी मे आपका स्वागत है .

Jab tak main 6 digit main nai kamonnga , thoda career stable ho jaye (pata nai kaun sa radiactive job kar rahe hai ki stabilty dhoon rahe hai) tab tak shaadi nai karunga blah blah...aisey wahiyat resolution jinka koi basis hi nai hai.

sharma ji ne nayi gaddi li hai, ya pintoo ke  ninety percent aa gaye ,unki beti doctor ban gayi, pata nai itne expectations hai kya bataye.
sometimes we behave like street dogs who are chasing every car.kyun bhaga rahe ,kis liye  bhag rahe hai  bas bagal wala bhag raha hai chalo bhagte  .
saari problem hai unnecsaary expectations and i tell u the moment u start expecting u start fooling urself.


ऐसे जी रहे है जैसे  आज exist   ही नहीं  करता .और हम ऐसे कल की  प्लानिंग कर रहे है 

जो chinese product की  तरह है जिसकी ना  गारंटी ना  वारंटी है 

पता सभी को है  क्या करना है लेकिन फिर भी अंजाम देने से डर रहे है 

एक खूबसूरत सी जिंदगी को बेवजह complicate कर रहे है 
करने दो काम थे कर बारह रहे है इस भर्म में अपने आप से ही लड़ रहे है 


Problem is all about unnecessary expectations and the moment u start expecting , u start fooling yourself.


ek simple advice hai :Life is a series of happenings, one that will push you to be your best.

Just realise that your life is a happening, not a doing. enjoy it the way it comes to you. Facing life's pressure, understand that it is simply directing you to be the best person you can be. 

Happy Women's Day

People often complain about the celebration of love,mother , womanhood etc etc
associated with one particular day. But i really feel that its good in some sense,
 I agree that you cant restrict love or other feeling for a day or a week.but in today's so busy life where there is so less time for relationships that using this One day occasion ,
we can took out sometime for our loved ones and tell them how much valueable they are.

Why I am writing this blog?

I usually came across FB pages asking to share this if u really love your mother,
sister,father,brother or love somebody etc. It really pissed me off . how sharing
a page or status can determine your love.
So i thought to pen down something original to dedicate to lovely women out there.
Let see woman nai hoti to neither father day hota na brother,sister day etc etc
most important Valentine day na hota, in short Woman are the most inportant part
in our life.They complete you, fulfill our existence.
Its my love and acknowledgement to the lovely ladies who inspire me n very important
part of my life.

It is hard to be a Woman.
You must think like a man,
Act like a lady.
Look like a young girl,
and work like hell.


So , its dedicated to them.

1.Shweta,Navneet & Tanu- lovely sisters of mine.always there to listen n advice me.
2.Vandana Aunty &Moitra Aunty - perfect example of working women how they balance
their personal and working life. hats off to them.
Multitasking and playing a mother, wife and daughter in law role along with their work,
sacrificing their professional growth either for their children or spouse.
Auntyji , tussi great ho :))))))))
3.Mummy n My Massi , love you both.

You can never love sumone more then the person that brought you into this world so
 this is for you mom. . 

Thank U Mummy 4 giving me this life n i love yu alot. .

Whatever I am its all because of you MOM.
4.Kareena Kapoor, Sonam Kapoor n Prachi Desai many more i love u all :))))))))))))
5.Finally Ana, Manu and  Supriya the beautiful ladies ,my best friends.
Again I have no words what importance  you all have in my life.

It is dedicated to the lady with whom you fight almost everyday,who
suffered so much pain just to give you a beautiful life! 
Just feel for a day  how much she sacrifice for you n your family.
So, value the women of your life and just respect her,love her n
treat her well always.

Happy Women's Day.Love you all.
Leaving you all with some wonderful lines about Mother :

A poem or a portrait,a novel or a play, every artist gives her or his name.
But there is no artist like a mother, gives birth to a child but gives fathers name.

PS:
1.Happy Marriage Anniversary Vandana Aunty.May God bless you n Uncle.
2.Rahul Dravid has taken retirement & my best friend has left TCS. I will miss both of u.
3.Please do comment n give your valuable feedback.

Band Baaja Baraati & Shaadi..........

In last 2 month. i have attended two weddings

in both these wedding of my very good friends, i got this opportunity to observe the marriage in my frame:

1. love cum arrange marriage are just like conditions of  mathematical differentiabilty. 

  LHS & RHS limit should exist and also LHS limit=RHS limit where as
  LHS & RHS in physical world mean aspirations and expectations  of bride(left) and groom(right) side.

2.the singers of bandwalla  are the worst singers.

3.the groom who sits on horse  looks most idiotic , actually it appears donkey siting on horse.

4.duniya main sabse slow  band baaja aur unke saath ki baarat hoti hai( <1 km in 2 hrs)

5.Bride n Groom ka photo session with so called relatives is the most cruel practice.

even the wax statue at madame tussade must be laughing them.

6.Photographer and Camera man consider themselves no more than aamir khan. so many retake and reshoot.

7.Waiting for baarat is the most frustrating thing for some people who only turn up in such parties 

for food.

8.It is an arena for some most active kitty parties aunties to flaunt their latest wardrobes and jewellary.

9.If u r a bachelor or single , dont worry there are enough uncle-aunty actually match making experts
desperatly to get u hooked . I really think they get commission for fixing marriages :)))
seriously i can write a whole blog on them.
10.Most importantly, Doston ke sath hi sabse jyada maza aata hai.

Shaadi's these day are new parameter of social status to flaunt your money,power .

cutting short,irrespective of all what written above
I love Shaadi, band baaja baraat.....

PS:
1. Election Time in UP and I too voted .
2.Four  Marriages of my close friends in next two month.
3.Missing 27 May 2011 Shaadi  in which i wake up whole night to watch
the whole marriage ,it was unforgettable masti time with my friends.